My views on Love, Lust, Marriage and Friendship between a Man and Woman
And the lessons learnt.
At the age of 33 as I look back…I realize, I have had the honor and privilege of a rare kind.
Being born as a Middle Class Indian in a rather very conservative family who was ‘forced’ to rattle off family prayers, behave ‘decently’ (and not myself) and one who was not even permitted to speak to a girl in the presence of his elders, I had an honor not many of my family members had.
It was better than being a great sports person.
It was better than getting a 1st class rank in my school.
It was better than being given any certificate of any kind for any achievement.
It was this.
I enjoyed sex, foreplay and sexual games with loads of females.
*tsk*
*tsk*
*tsk*
This is so wrong.
Let me rephrase it.
I exchanged and shared a physical experience with many members of the opposite sex – which to be honest, was mutually done in the pretext and façade of a word called ‘love’.
In some holy books, it was called ‘the most sacred gift’.
In some cultures, it is called ‘a holy bond’
In some countries, it is only for ‘married couples who are blessed in the eyes of ‘God’.
So…with regards to me…, to be honest….it just ‘sex’.
And there is nothing wrong in being honest that “you enjoyed sex”.
Being in my 20,
My hormones were raging
Stuff was happening to my body
And I was getting outright horny.
All of a sudden females were hot,
Breasts were nice to suck, kiss and lick
Female butts were to be squeezed and touched
And females were…well to be experimented as porn guinea pigs.
So considering that ‘sex’ is NOT a bad thing, let’s move on.
I had to learn how to ‘cool’ myself down…and this was the best place and people to do it with.
So back to my story….
I enjoyed sex, foreplay and sexual games with a loads of females…
But this was not the big deal.
The big deal of the whole equation was…
I enjoyed sex, foreplay and sexual games with a loads of females….
WITHOUT promising to get married to them
WITHOUT being a ‘nicey-nicey’ guy
WITHOUT promising them that I would be a ‘one-woman-man’
Now this was indeed surprising.
Simply because women has we knew it, we felt and anticipated that they wanted a ‘fully & totally-committed’ man.
One that would be a nice guy like those in the movies
One that would save the world and then come bruised only to love his one woman
One that would face off temptation only to true to his true love…
But I was a lucky guy who was getting away with day-light murder.
Being able to have and exchange physical pleasure with so many females without having to commit myself to them – was like enjoying a free movie ticket with all the popcorn and nachos for free without having to pay for it!
Now this is a rare treat and I was treating myself pretty well.
My schedules were really packed and tight.
This was one of my typical days when I was 17 or 18 years old…
· I would go to a girl’s house whose dad and mom were working but because she was so nerdy, having a guy wanting to shower her with attention and shag her with romantic dialogues was a treat.
· After her, I would go off to my friends house whose sister was a bit ‘cracked up in the head’ (don’t know why) but he felt she always listened to me. So I would go to his house, while he would give us both privacy and there I would keep her happy.
· Next was the 3 young girls in my building. They were pretty young and I would give them ‘sexual’ education and we would play ‘doctor-doctor’
· After that came going home, showing my face, having lunch and then back to the hunting forest…
· I would move on to meet another girl down her building to exchange a few gifts and yes, give her ‘my gifts’
· And finally in the evening came a girl whose parents went out for jogging and exercise and I would give her my rendition of ‘jogging and exercise’
And while on this amazing goose chase to shag as many girls as possible, I would also very dedicatedly hunt for more girls because I had to keep my life lines open. And if you do recollect – 17 years ago, there was no internet, no chatting and no online dating sites. So I really worked hard towards my goals. And if you recollect, I told you my family was a ‘conservative’ family…So I worked hard through the loop-holes of fooling my parents without being caught using the phone.
So lesson number 1 which I learnt was this…
In love…..both men and women…
They don’t know what they want.
They honestly don’t….
They assume that they know what they want…
But they don’t…
Because no one ever does.
I dated so many girls
And each of them had a typical theory
Of what they wanted
What they hoped for
And what they were ready to settle down with
But in the end
The guy who they settled down with
Was totally opposite from what they stated they wanted
Lesson number 2 was this…
Men love Bad girls
Women love Bad boys
There is some strange thrill that comes out
From dating someone who is bold, dirty and slutty
It brings out the devil dormant inside of us
And makes us do things we fantasize
In each case of the women I was with
To be brutally honest
They were all really nice women from really nice households
While I was openly a bad guy
These girls were from good families
But still…
They wanted the ‘forbidden apple’
And I was their road to the naughty freedom they were looking for…
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